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needthosepylons@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

When I read those, I consider myself lucky. I’m not handsome, normal sized, not athletic at all, not very sociable, closer to poor than rich, yet I never experienced any of those. Always had a few close friends and never have been single for more than 4 consecutive months since my 15th birthday.

Is it a matter of luck? If countries culture? Of type of schools/univ? If social groups? I truly wonder.

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Zementid@feddit.nl ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
Well some are lucky or simply befriend the bully. Whatever works…

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1SimpleTailor@startrek.website ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
In a case like this I feel like anon just has shitty friends and needed to find a group he fits in better with. If you’re awkward and weird, you’ve just got to find the awkward and weird kids to be friends with (anime club, theater, ect) there’s even awkward and weird girls there.

Looks don’t even matter that much in dating (unless you’ve got porn brainrot). So long as you’re not deformed or super obese someone will be attracted to you, and chances are you’ll find them attractive too. Just don’t be a creep and have interest outside of video games and modern dating is pretty easy.

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grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago
You’re probably a nice person and a decent hang. Really that’s what most people are looking for imho

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uis@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

since my 15th birthday

Isn’t ot a bit too early?

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