Comment on Daily Discussion Thread: đȘđđ«§đœïž Wednesday 4 December
princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© agoâŠyouâve got time to turn things around.
This feels uncomfortably close to a âpull yourself up by your bootstrapsâ mentality⊠đ
wscholermann@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Certainly wasnât intended as such. You usually need help to turn things around and even more help is definitely needed if you arenât at a great starting point.
princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Itâs just that you keep putting it on them, as if they need to be the one to âturn things aroundâ when their rant was specifically about external systems prejudicing them. They canât âturn aroundâ AusPostâs decision to deny them the ability to redirect their mail?
Basically, they are trying to ask these systems for help, and are being denied. So why put it on their shoulders? Why not be outraged that someone is falling through the gaps, through no fault of their own?
I get that you have good intentions here, but I feel like youâre kind of missing the point in a big wayâŠ
wscholermann@aussie.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Because at my age Iâve ran out of energy to be outraged after having to face many of the same things myself.
You donât know my life so back off and stop attacking me. Thanks.
princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšweeksâ© ago
Itâs pretty poor form to call any criticism against you out as âattackingâ.
I guess I shouldnât expect much from someone your age though. Have a good night mate đ«Ą