Comment on Why do I tend to reply in the same amount of time it took my friends to?
EmbarrassedDrum@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks agoI agree with what you’re saying. if you just happen to be on the phone when someone texts, there’s no problem in answering immediately.
I don’t think anyone is “desperate” is they reply quick. I just think they replied quick.
If I think they’re busy and don’t wanna interrupt, then they’ll just read the message at their own time. Don’t see any reason to play these games.
undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 2 weeks ago
Me neither. I don’t expect texting to be instant either and basically have the same attitude you do.
I remember for the longest time family would be angry that I texted them at night, and I’d always think to myself “then just respond later?”
EmbarrassedDrum@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 weeks ago
I’m with you at texting late. tho I learned people don’t silence their phones at night and it may wake them, so I learned to avoid that