Comment on Anon doesn't know what he's doing wrong

• GottaKnowYourCHKN@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  What bothers me, is that this creates this idea for some men that they can “change” or convince lesbians. If you’re like “Oh I’m a lesbian, but I have a boyfriend.” You’re going to make some men think they just have to ask enough and that lesbians just “need a good d” to turn straight again.

  Why lesbian over bi, if I may ask? Do you find yourself moving between the two labels when it’s convenient or would be awkward to say? Like, if you meet his family-- do you tell them you’re actually a lesbian?

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  • NikkiDimes@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    No, I totally get that, and I hate that I “prove” that stereotype. I hear that shit all the time and frankly, it’s disgusting.

    I identify more with lesbian, because quite frankly I’m not physically attracted to guys like…at all. I just happen to really be attached to this one guy in particular. Outside of him, I’ve never had a male romantic partner, and should we break up at some point, I don’t see myself doing it again.

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