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StudChud@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  My daughter has thick hair. She brushes it at night. Wakes up next morning, looks like she spent a night in the forest.

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  • StudChud@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Literally me as well. I can brush it, use normal shampoo and conditioner, or a 3-1, I can straighten it or curl it, but the next day it’s a fucking nest.

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    • Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Go with it.

      For years I had a “tousled” hairstyle. Loved it and it was easy.

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      • StudChud@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I had a tousled look in 2021 when I shaved it last. It was magnificent and wild in a good way, how I can get back to that, because this Bart look isn’t it.

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    • CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Hahaha.

      Like a wild animal!

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• melbaboutown@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I get tempted to do that, or go really short. But this would happen to me or it would get really oily fast

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  • StudChud@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I get oily roots, there’s a point where the oil is okay and it kinda works to keep the hair where it should be - but then the next day I’ll need to wash it.

    I have not found a shampoo/conditioner combo that works for me yet. Even the dry versions are meh. So I just have to wash it every few days, but then it’s super fluffy and looks wack as in the morning. I dislike the feeling of hair gel or hairspray, so I think my options are limited until it grows a bit. I also have a number of mental health issues that make personal hygiene hard sometimes, and honestly short hair is easier to clean and manage than long, for me.

    Plus I have psoriasis behind my ears, which I think is caused by stress as most topical meds don’t work against it (had it since I was a kid), and I can’t apply them every day or it damages my skin in other ways. So either I have long unruly hair that hides my psoriasis, or a go short and have people silently judge me for a skin condition that I have little control over.

    I’m also a tad sad, as I do like long hair and feel more feminine. I’m non binary, but my mum hated me looking feminine, so no dresses, no jewellery, no makeup, no straightening hair. So I wore baggy boys clothes and had frizzy hair, so I got bullied. Thanks mum. So as an adult I try to indulge myself with nice jewellery and dresses, long hair is a part of that for me. Sorry for the rant :/

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    • melbaboutown@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Yeah, mine is fine and gets oily quite fast so either I have it long and have to struggle with washing and detangling it all the time or have it short and have the small amount of hair get messy and turn into an oil slick… I’m looking into a compromise of a bob that’s still long enough to tie back or clip up. Constant hygiene routines are hard.

      I had to stop using most traditional shampoos and conditioners because of silicones (dimethicone or other ‘cones). Between my natural oil and the buildup of the cones my hair would be oily and sticky creating a vicious cycle of washing.

      Now I use Akin, Redwin tea tree oil shampoo or as bad as it is - a synthetic cleansing bar like Dove - lathering well at my roots to get the grease and letting it rinse out through the lengths to clean without stripping them. Another shampoo and conditioner combo I liked was Garnier Coconut Water as it cleaned the roots really well (sulfates) but the conditioner was a bit heavier for the dry ends. The heavy scent is the only reason I don’t still get it.

      Going silicone free has a really awkward phase where your hair is really damaged and dry or oily because it’s no longer being laminated and the damage now shows. I went Garnier > Akin > Redwin/bar but the upside of the short style is that you can grow it out healthy when you want it long again. I hear biotin helps grow hair faster but can give you skin reactions (never tested it).

      Another thing I found really useful was to use leave in conditioner on the ends and lengths well away from my scalp. It meant I could really wash my scalp and then add something that would ease combing and control frizz. Then when dry it would ease brushing. (I’d definitely recommend a silicone free one like Akin or you can end up back in grease town.)

      Bandannas, headbands and pinning the front back in a little pompadour help with hair being a jerk. You can also lean over the sink and wash only your fringe or the front of your hair.

      The psoriasis is tough as it’s an autoimmune condition that might benefit from a derm or a doctor. But it runs in my family so I’m familiar with Pinetarsol and T Gel. The T Gel unfortunately has silicone and both ranges have a distinct coal tar or pine tar smell but the T Gel has sorted out my scalp in the past.

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