Honestly, I'd argue the opposite. My wife is a stay at home wife and a stay at home mom because it is her will to do so, but she exercises her will in defiance of overwhelming societal pressure to go out and get a career even though that isn't what she wants to do with her life. If she's talking to people she's never going to meet again, she just lies or changes the subject when it comes up because it's so uncomfortable hearing the judgmental "oh... you don't work."

Unfortunately, postmodern culture mistakes freedom to choose to do a thing with an obligation to do a thing, and the freedom not to do a thing with an obligation not to do a thing. The point of freedom should be that we each have the autonomy to follow our own chosen path willfully, rather than an obligation to follow whatever path has been prescribed for us. To switch one prescribed path for another isn't freedom, it's leading you out of one cage and into another.