Comment on Is it me or is everyone in hexbear insane?

Allero@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• SirDerpy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Also, post is not a genuine question.

  I’ll answer yours in good faith.

  what else do you expect them to do? Sit and politely agree?

  Internally reach consensus to segregate themselves, then brigade the fediverse whole with content that allowed the majority to believe it was their choice.

  Because such actions are well outside of status quo want for bandwagon validation they’re by definition “insane” and “unexpected”. But, the hexbear community is well aware that the majority is better off not yet knowing what they believe. Many expected such actions as it was an obvious moral and ethical imperative that lacked internal leadership support.

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  • alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Internally reach consensus to segregate themselves, then brigade the fediverse whole with content that allowed the majority to believe it was their choice.

    Hexbear was the only lemmy for 4 years, over that time their code base diverged, it took a few months to make federation possible again. There was never a consensus on whether HB should be segregated, a lot of users opposed federation over concerns about harassment or just valuing one of the few leftist communities. The end result was slow federation, with users suggesting specific instances to federate with, and instances getting defederated if the admins failed to take adequate action against transphobes/chasers.

    hexbear community is well aware that the majority is better off not yet knowing what they believe

    Half this thread is hexbears and others telling people exactly what they believe about random topics. If you doubt that, Hexbear has 4 years of history and a search function.

    Many expected such actions as it was an obvious moral and ethical imperative that lacked internal leadership support.

    What are you talking about?

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    • SirDerpy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Hexbear was the only lemmy for 4 years, over that time their code base diverged, it took a few months to make federation possible again… a lot of users opposed federation concerns about harassment or just valuing one of the few leftist communities. The end result was slow federation, with users suggesting specific instances to federate with, and instances getting defederated if the admins failed to take adequate action against transphobes/chasers.

      Now there’s two of us that are speaking truth.

      Half this thread is hexbears and others telling people exactly what they believe about random topics.

      Are they? That wouldn’t be thematically consistent with their years of telling others what they’d like to hear for their entertainment. Their culture is selfish in that way.

      There was never a consensus on whether HB should be segregated

      There was never formal consensus in that leadership repeatedly denied the vote, favoring a granular, instance-by-instance approach.

      What are you talking about?

      An organized, grassroots movement that employed questionable means to force the wisest decision upon leadership and everyone else.

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      • alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        That wouldn’t be thematically consistent with their years of telling others what they’d like to hear for their entertainment.

        What?

        There was never formal consensus in that leadership repeatedly denied the vote, favoring a granular, instance-by-instance approach.

        Here’s the vote that approved the granular instance-by-instance approach

        An organized, grassroots movement that employed questionable means to force the wisest decision upon leadership and everyone else.

        Are you describing the consensus building and struggle sessions as forcing the wisest decision on everyone?

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• ristoril_zip@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  If someone calls me insane, the response that proves them wrong is a reasonable, chill response at most. The actual sane thing to do is ignore them or make a joke about the claim.

  Just like if someone calls me weird, the response that proves I’m not weird is to say, “hahaha, sure, whatever” or “so what?” The response that would prove their point is along the lines of, “I’m not weird, you’re weird” or “they’re not calling me weird, they’re calling my associate weird.”

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  • Allero@lemmy.today ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Ignoring or shrugging off shit people say about you may actually not be a viable long-term strategy.

    Contrary to what many of us have been taught, this actually allows others to reinforce their views about you inside their echo chambers.

    That’s not to mention it’s simply not great to hear that stuff said about you or the group you care about, and the longer this drags on, the more toxicity, alienation, and spite inevitably accumulates. None of us are immune to this, and it’s not insane to be hostile to those who are hostile to you.

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