Comment on How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?
friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 2 months agoIt could be an excuse to avoid the real reasons. If OP really wants to know the truth, he could ask one of the women who said this for be 100% honest with him about all the reasons she’s not interested.
Atlas_@lemmy.world 2 months ago
That depends a lot on the sort of women he’s approaching. If he’s mostly approaching strangers he probably still won’t get a different real answer - if they’re brushing him off like this there’s a reason and “please be honest” isn’t going to change it.
This might work with an already good friend that he asked out, but that doesn’t seem to be the situation described.