Comment on I wish I was her.

• eestileib@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Honestly, if you both know that going into it, it’s fine,

  You don’t get that feeling of cliff-diving abandon that you get from letting your love instincts run wild, but it doesn’t fuck up your life in the same way either when it ends.

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  • funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    it’s implied that one or both parties are basically too disastrous to commit

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    • eestileib@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I just ended it with a guy who crossed the disaster threshold…

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