Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
MutilationWave@lemmy.world 3 months agoIncels are on the rise, both genders. Where do they fit it your 100%? We’re seeing the birth of hikkikomori culture.
Comment on I've heard it clears up again after the first wave of divorces
MutilationWave@lemmy.world 3 months agoIncels are on the rise, both genders. Where do they fit it your 100%? We’re seeing the birth of hikkikomori culture.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 3 months ago
If I had to guess based on my understanding of attachment theory, it could be the anxious attachment, the avoidant, or the disorganized (which has traits of both, and is rare). In any case it’s clearly the insecure attachment styles.
Based on the “incel” description itself though, I don’t think you have enough information to guess either. An individual hokkikomori is clearly more avoidant than anything though, as they don’t seek or hold relationships with others as valuable.
MutilationWave@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Holy shit go live your life. You’re not a cell on a spreadsheet about attachment theory.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 3 months ago
Wait I’m confused - you asked where they fit in the 100%. I gave you my best guess.
What does that have to do with spreadsheets?
Entropywins@lemmy.world 3 months ago
What do incels and Excel have in common?
They both wrongly assume somethings a date when it’s not!