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tiramichu@lemm.ee 3 months ago
I assume you’re asking the question on the basis of hypocrisy, I.e. “Is it hypocritical to smoke weed while you’re an AA member?”
My take is that no, it wouldn’t be.
People who are in AA are there because they struggle with alcohol addiction and they need community and support around that. And that’s why you’d also be there too. There’s nothing hypocritical about having other vices in your life aside from alcohol if those vices are not the source of your troubles. You can still attend in good faith for the right reasons.
volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 3 months ago
You’ve never been to an AA meeting, have you?
tiramichu@lemm.ee 3 months ago
I have not, and my take is my ideological viewpoint rather than one based on experience.
Care to share your perspective? :)
volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 3 months ago
I did in another comment above!
Ideologically, I can follow your argument. I just don’t think this fits with the AA philosophy. But that being said, AA is not the one and only or the gold standard for self help groups. It’s not a one size fits all. For me, AA is almost too religious and also didn’t fit into my life back then.
tiramichu@lemm.ee 3 months ago
Ah, awesome. I just read through your comment and that makes a lot of sense.
I stand by my ideology, but your comment helps me appreciate the reality of that situation and that if you are smoking or doing other non-alcohol things, you should probably keep that very much to yourself
From the perspective of an attendee who is going completely ‘cold turkey’ on everything, I can see how even the idea of someone else using different substances could be offensive, because it could be seen to undermine the effort they are putting in, and is confrontational that you get to have this other vice, while they are doing it ‘the hard way’
I dont really agree with that perspective, and in some ways it seems toxic in its own right, but I can see why people would feel that way.