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She wanted him to let her know when he got home so she could meet him at the door. To know he was there. That is the definition of the fear of abandonment.

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peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
No, SHE wanted him to meet HER at the Uber when SHE got home.

Today, before taking an Uber home, she sent me a text wanting me to be downstairs on the street to greet her as the Uber arrives. I read it and told her that yes, I’ll be there. I didn’t notice any further text because I was in the middle of something.

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