Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?

• FuglyDuck@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  or maybe you could understand why it’s a form of torture and understand what I’m trying to say.

  Hint: because it put somebody into a vulnerable, easily manipulated state. whether she knew it or not, she was taking advantage of that vulnerable state. she brushed off prior attempts to talk it out, which is fine. But she doesn’t get to unilaterally expect that conversation on her timetable. He gets to say ‘no, I’m not in a place to talk about this,’ too.

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