Yeah that’s horrible. I have a strict policy of turning off any notification that is not a direct message from a person to me or a reminder I set myself. If crap gets bundled like this, I turn it off altogether.
When I used Tinder, I just checked the app every now and then and I remember people unmatching me again because I didn’t reply quickly enough. Online dating is so fucking toxic.
pivot_root@lemmy.world 6 months ago
I put “Messages will arrive in three to five business days” in my bio, and that solved the problem nicely. Now, I simply don’t get matches at all 😎
Emerald@lemmy.world 6 months ago
If you aren’t joking… that’s awesome
pivot_root@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Yeah… I think you might be an optimist. It was not the positive outcome you appeared to have taken away from it.