Comment on Can I ask this girl out?
ThisIsMySecretAccount@lemmy.world 10 months agoNormally asking her out probably wouldn’t even have occurred to me. She said that when she’s coming over for lunch, she’d come to the kitchen to say hi. That’s kinda what gives me the vibes she’s not just being nice to me for her job. If I’m gonna make a move, it’s probably then.
The comment about coming to the kitchen to say hi is important context. I’m inclined to agree with you, that she isn’t just being nice, with that info.
I definitely say go for it, but do it in a way that doesn’t put her on the spot, in front of other people. Good luck! Hopefully there will be an exciting update.
She said that when she’s coming over for lunch, she’d come to the kitchen to say hi.
This is kinda cheesy but I’d have said something like “That’s so sweet, but wouldn’t it be easier to just text me?” and then offer her my number when/if she says she doesn’t have it.
Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
I said this in another comment, but I think the best plan if you can would be bring out her order yourself. Then have waiter/waitress leave your name and number on the check. Real sly, you get personal interaction and don’t put her on the spot.
But it sounds like things are looking up for you buddy. Hope we get a follow up!