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Jerkface@lemmy.world 5 months agoVery plausible. Sometimes this happens to people who grow up with family who have cluster b personality disorders. It’s like they’re conditioned to be good partners to people who have it. Ask me how I know.
Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 5 months ago
…how do you know?
Jerkface@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Mother had BPD, possibly ASPD, brother had NPD. I have a tendency to attract people who suffered intense childhood trauma.
Rolder@reddthat.com 5 months ago
I’m picturing you going on a first date and just casually asking something like “So, childhood abuse yes or no?”
Disaster@sh.itjust.works 5 months ago
Often times, you don’t need to ask. You can just tell.
Jerkface@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Like another comment said, sometimes you can just sense it, but often enough they will just tell me. I have heard so many stories, frequently about sexual assault by a family member, from someone I had just met or barely knew.
A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 5 months ago
Sameee. It sounds bad but honestly I think it’s done a lot in the way of building mental fortitude