Comment on Feels good to win boys
demlet@lemmy.world 1 year agoThe toxic beliefs that are taught are part of the trauma. Certainly not an excuse, no, but good to be aware of if we want to help people break the cycle.
As far as the whole “sleep on the couch” thing, I don’t tend to think grown adults should be telling one another where they’re allowed to sleep just because one of them is upset, but that’s a different topic.
irmoz@reddthat.com 1 year ago
Sorry i punched you in the face, i thought it was okay because daddy did it
demlet@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Pretty much…
irmoz@reddthat.com 1 year ago
Excuses
demlet@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Explanations aren’t excuses, and without explanations we can’t fix the problem. Villainizing can be useful and certainly feels good but it doesn’t accomplish much else.