Comment on Anon has an asexual gf
Passerby6497@lemmy.world 2 months agoBDSM != sex, even if the two are heavily connected in a lot of people’s minds. I’ve played with both tops and bottoms that were ace/het/LGBT, and there was not anything sexual there. Hell, one of my fave experiences was bottoming for a lesbian top who enjoyed beating on dudes.
BDSM is not inherently sexual, even if there can be a lot of sexuality involved.
janus2@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
am lesbian who enjoys beating on dudes (on anyone tbh)
shoutout to kinky guys who bottom for domme lezzies but still respect their sexuality :]
Passerby6497@lemmy.world 2 months ago
10000%
I love getting beat by confident women (presenting people), and never expect anything more than that. Being somewhat demi helps a lot with that aspect, but it’s just basic respect for an ephemeral play partner in my mind.