Comment on Why does “come here” bother me so much?

squiblet@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

My gf used to do that and I found it super annoying. Seems obvious why - do I want to get up over and over again and walk into the other room? No. I might be busy doing something, also. Sometimes the things she’d want me to see were very trivial, too. So it’s just inconsiderate.

I explained I found it annoying and had to mushy start saying “no”. She also does a similar thing verbally, like she’ll say my name from 2-3 rooms away. I’ve asked her to rather than say my name and make me yell across the house, please just say whatever it is, or even better, SHE can get up and tell me. To make it more annoying, sometimes she says my name, i respond, then she doesn’t say anything. Again, it’s inconsiderate. I don’t want to be required to shout “YES??”. I e asked her repeatedly to please not do it and she still does.

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