No, because I knowingly manipulate the people around me. I’m firmly against violence, including emotional and verbal violence, so I make the effort to manipulate people with misdirection and incentives rather than threats or punishment.

Every manipulates others all the time, whether they know it or not, whether they admit it or not. The important thing is to do it ethically, and how can you do that if you’re not aware of the effects you have on others?

It’s good that you are engaging in self-examination in this way. I might suggest that there’s a difference between being honest and being blunt. Just because you refuse to lie does not mean you always need to tell the truth, rather that you only tell the truth. You’re allowed to keep silent, to leave a true-but-painful confrontation unspoken.