Comment on What should I do if my girlfriend doesn’t listen?
BambiDiego@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Often when people ask for advice like you are doing it comes down to “tell them what you told me just now.”
In this case it seems like she doesn’t listen, and/or care enough.
If you are trying in earnest, and it is reciprocated then there is room for growth. If it isn’t then they are not supporting you, and you should seriously and decisively consider going separate ways.
You can like each other, you can enjoy each other’s company, you can be in love, yet still it be wrong for a relationship.
Duhtocqueville@ttrpg.network 7 hours ago
The girlfriend sounds really childish. To the point I’m wondering if these are very young people, like early teens. If so it isn’t that that don’t care, it’s that they’re very immature and don’t know how to deal with anything uncomfortable and just shove it out of the way and move on to what they can easily distract themselves with.
If this person is an adult, I’m very concerned about their maturity level, becuase it sounds really stunted.
may_be@thelemmy.club 7 hours ago
15 and 16, high school
BambiDiego@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
You’re doing well by being open enough to ask and learn.
You’re gonna make some mistakes, and you’re also gonna be right and prove the world wrong sometimes.