Comment on The myth of "consensual" choking

• ninekeysdown@lemmy.world ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  No choking of any kind is safe. It’s all edge play.

  There’s a huge difference between a firm hold and chokehold. Giving someone a firm grasp is a safer way of doing that if you’re gonna do that at all. It’s not as dark romance book boyfriend hot, but it has the added benefit of not leading to accidents.

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  • thebestaquaman@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    There’s a huge difference between a firm hold and chokehold.

    So much this! I think it’s under-communicated that you have this whole spectrum from “placing hand lightly on neck” to “actual strangulation”, and there’s a whole lot of fun to be had without getting close to the dangerous side of that spectrum at all.

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  • Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨13⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Yeah, the cuties ask me for the lack of oxygen high. I’ll keep ya words in mind

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    • trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      The problem is that the average sub has a deathwish and they cum harder in proportion to how close they get to it.

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      • Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        One can only go so far tbh.

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