Comment on Which is worse: not wanting kids, or wanting them too much?

• Poojabber@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Yes, and they were an ungrateful asshole who thought money grew on trees. Now they are an ungrateful asshole who thought parenting would be all puppies and rainbows.

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  • Eternal192@anarchist.nexus ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    If you must know i spent 4 years without power or running water 1991-1995 due to a war.

    My father never really contributed to the household before or after the war and 1997 my parents separated.

    After my mother remarried she and my stepdad were taking loans left and right until everything went to shit and we didn’t have food, running water or power.

    While everything is stable now my childhood wasn’t “puppies and rainbows”.

    So have your presumptions if it makes you feel better about yourself.

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    • Poojabber@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I didnt need to know. You had a tough life, like most people… boo hoo. What i did know, was you said “Kids don’t deserve to be raped or murdered but they are ungrateful assholes that think money grows on trees,” and that statement alone makes you a shitbag.

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