feeding them and keeping them in that condition.

The enabler is not keeping them in that condition. The 600-pounder is keeping themselves in that condition through the choices they make every day. Should that enabler leave… another will take their place. Because many people feel gratification from caring for others, and feeding those we love is a part of being human, it’s as natural as feeding ourselves.

You can find many 400 pounders and up on social media, still caring for themselves without an enabler. They get there all by themselves through their choices. Perhaps they’ll get to 600 pounds some day… but to blame the enabler, the person who cares for them, is madness. The blame lies with the person consuming 10,000 calories a day, you can’t get to 600 pounds by making a few bad choices. It’s YEARS of daily bad choices, and they made those decisions.