Bored at work mostly, but also I’m mostly right. There’s a valid point to be made about respecting other people’s preferences and property even in the context of a committed long-term relationship, but it’s absolutely lost amongst all this pseud shit about the sanctity of personal instrument configuration from people who are apparently unable to replicate the same tone twice and are proud of that for some reason. There’s no possible way a $200 repair job from a legitimate professional did anything to irreversibly change the instrument, it definitely did absolutely nothing to stop the husband from achieving a specific sound or to change his playing experience in any meaningful way. What I am adding to the conversation is a rebuttal, my end goal is to tell people who are confidently incorrect that they are wrong, the fact that they tend to get angry about that is amusing but not something I particularly value.