Comment on Money doesn't solve everything, but it helps.

• raze2012@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  That’s all I’m saying, yea. Therapists aren’t any different from any other professional you seek for improvement. But generally, in the wide spectrum of 100s of millions of people, professional guidance improves you.

  Biggest sin of social media is people further misunderstanding statistics and acting like an individual failure is a societal letdown. Sometimes you just have a shit teacher. doesn’t mean all teachers are shit.

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  • schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I guess there’s a certain question of autonomy. There’s a tension between, “I need help running my life” and “I know when something isn’t helpful and can walk away.” There are ways in which therapy can disempower you: it can teach you to ignore your instincts, paper over your concerns… there is a real risk that someone who just can´t handle anything about their life will be trapped in an unhelpful (or openly abusive) relationship for years, so I’m really hesitant to recommend it to people blindly with no caveats.

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    • raze2012@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      There are ways in which therapy can disempower you: it can teach you to ignore your instincts, paper over your concerns

      Any therapist telling you to “ignore your instincts” without diagnosing you with a relevant condition (e.g. PTSD, OCD) isn’t worth their salt. And not all therapists are licensed to diagnose you, so you’d need to be referred to a potentially different professional.

      It’s like any other professional. You try stuff they suggest, and sometimes it doesn’t work out or you simply want 2nd opinion on a matter. It’s not perfect, but generally it helps.

      so I’m really hesitant to recommend it to people blindly with no caveats.

      Worst case, they waste a few hundred dollars and learn its not for them. I’ve wasted more money with worse things. I think the risk of getting “addicted to therapy” is much smaller than gambling or drugs.

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    • Rooster326@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      What?

      Therapists do not just make you feel OK with everything. They teach you skills, mental resiliency, many things. I feel you have a very warped view of what therapy actually is.

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      • schipelblorp@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Can you directly quote what you are referring to? I don’t find what you’re replying to.

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