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danciestlobster@lemmy.zip 19 hours agoThat’s interesting. I would have said kink is more about the activity being done than the conversation and lead up to it. I mean the conversation is obviously important but I wouldn’t have thought part of the definition
froh42@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Kink is stuff “out of the percieved norm”, so it has developed a culture of finding consent, that - sadly! - a lot of “normal people” don’t have.
I want this always.
(And I’ve probably confused the person following up to my comment with my attempt of sarcasm)