The difference is power structures and cultural incentives. Fuckboys tend to not react pleasantly to being turned down. I get more “himbo” (keeping the male parallel theme going) vibes from Violet. She’s down to clown, isn’t afraid to let that be known, but nothing screams that anything nonconsensual is happening here.

People fuck, who cares? She doesn’t appear to be hurting anyone. Her posts are funny, it doesn’t need to be deep.