Comment on get a job you loser

• PlaidBaron@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Please do not become a teacher unless you really really enjoy it. It is a fucking hard job. You will be working way more hours in real life than on paper. You will need to play a thousand different roles for hundreds of kids. You will be emotionally destroyed day to day. You will need to be able to listen to kids as they explain why they are considering suicide or trying to figure out what to do since they got pregnant.

  You will be asked to not only teach but plan, grade, do extracurriculars, stay after school for kids who cant get a quick ride home, etc.

  So many people try to get into this job because its a way to genuinely feel good about your work. And it is. But you have to be a bit masochistic to do it and you have to really fucking love it.

  I can’t imagine doing anything else, but the amount of burnout Ive seen in my career is unreal. People do not know what they are getting into.

  So with that said, if you try it and arent happy after a few years, please dont stick it out. Its unfair to yourself and the kids you teach. Ive seen it too many times.

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  • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Yes, but I reckon that also stems from being understaffed and to a lesser extent, underpaid.

    If you had more colleagues to divide the workload and if classrooms had fewer kids the job would probably be a lot less stressful.

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    • jve@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Gosh darn reality making things hard.

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      • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Your point?

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• jve@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Mm yes, he forgot to mention the silly extra requirements of food and shelter.

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  • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Ahh yes, the ultimate straw man. Everyone will go homeless and die if they go into another profession. How could I forget.

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    • jve@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Lotta irony in this comment.

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      • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        In that one? Probably

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• arrow74@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I mean it definitely is. Yes those jobs have openings now, but if too many people switch then suddenly there are no more openings.

  Also both of those positions require specific education and certifications. It’s not always that easy to drop what you’re doing and entirely reinvent your career

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  • Cloaca@mtgzone.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I’ll also note that there are a number of nurses that feel that they can’t actually make a difference because their days are spent running appeals against souless insurance companies or that anecdotally they just spend their time being yelled at by patients. I’ve also talked with teachers that have complained about sacrificing so much for the kids they teach only to have those very students abuse them or steal from them.

    These folks are definitely more likely to actually make a difference, but it is far from easy or rewarding most of the time.

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  • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Well that’s a hypothetical situation and extremely unlikely to happen. So let’s not explore that. For an individual, you, or the OP and with the proper training it’s definitely not that hard to land a job that’s more meaningful.

    Of course different jobs require different training, but that is very doable as well, especially since the trading programmes for both of these jobs will have you working on the floor within a year or even a few months as an intern.

    And it gets even easier once you realize it is a choice between doing something you hate 8 hours per day for 40 or so more years vs. doing a fulfilling job and contributing to society, which requires a little effort. The biggest effort is putting yourself to doing it.

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    • arrow74@lemmy.zip ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You are still making some very big assumptions on how easy it is to drop a career and swap to a new one. Do people do it? Yes they do, but it’s not easy.

      Once you have things like a family, car payment, mortgage, etc. It can be really hard to restart.

      Also being a registered nurse takes 4 years plus certifications. Being a teacher varies wildly state to state.

      You are definitely approaching this from a mindset of being either just in college or early/no career and having low liabilities/commitments in life. Which if that’s where you are I encourage people in that stage of to seek out something rewarding. It only gets harder the long you wait in life and the more you develop the career you are in.

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      • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        And you are making assumptions on how hard it would be. People do it all the time. The hard part is breaking the habit and getting out of the comfort zone. And to stay in the comfort zone people throw up hurdles for themselves, making it seem harder than it is.

        Even you are trying to make it seem worse than it is, citing a four-year training when I just told you that during that training the trainee nurses are usually working on the floor in paid internships within a year.

        So like I said, the hard part is not the actual switch, but the mental process to start the switch, getting out of the groove that you’re stuck in and overcoming perceived barriers that you build up in your own mind.

        Anyway, what the OP said was that it would be hard finding a job that benefits society. And finding the job isn’t very hard once you’re trained.

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• oceancloud@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I would literally rather work with dozens of people in violent psychosis than work with one (1) developmentally normal modern-day child.

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  • Photonic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    They’re just two examples and the first two that came to mind. Don’t get too worked up about the specifics of the jobs. There are loads of other jobs that benefit society in some way. It just takes a little effort to find what’s suited for you.

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