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Some of the people here are family men who actually do know what we’re talking about. To falsely equate your “I don’t know” with experience driven advice, is a disservice to OP.

Kindly fuck off with your assumptions. When I was young, I chose not to have children because my parents were unable to raise me without traumatic fear and pain, and I never wanted anyone else to feel that.

I love someone, but we are not together and likely never will be.

Would you be upset if someone told you that you don’t love your wife?

Stop pretending to know things you cannot know. Your experience is not everyone’s.

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Canconda@lemmy.ca ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

Would you be upset if someone told you that you don’t love your wife?

You? No. My father? yes.

The fact that you think I’m assuming things about your life shows that you’re reacting defensively instead of maturley considering what’s being presented to you.

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- SnoopSqueak@lemmy.today ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  I am reacting defensively, you attacked OP by pretending to know their mind and confidently asserting you know they are wrong when you can’t possibly know that. It’s a pretty shitty thing to do and it’d be wrong of me not to point that out.
  
  Here’s one for you: you don’t actually love your father, it’s stockholm syndrome. How do I know? It happened to me, therefore it must also be your experience.
  
  Does that feel good?
  
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