I really don’t think you deserve all those downvotes. Did all of those people really forget how it is to be a teenager?

I remember quite well my first time having sex and I remember how awkward I felt. There’s no way in hell I would be confident enough to ask my partner for tips how to touch her. Obviously, it makes sense and it would benefit both of us, but it’s just not that easy when you’re only starting out learning about physical intimacy.

With that being said, talking with your partner is the right answer. Especially if it’s more long-term, serious type relationship. You will both learn how to communicate and how to have awesome sex. It builds trust and understanding. It’s great and I highly recommend that.

On the other hand I do realize there might be reasons why you’re not exactly ready right now. And I think you should be able to get pretty good anyway. The advice will be pretty trivial though - just google that shit. I’m absolutely sure there is a ton of articles, forum and reddit threads, even instructional videos (just don’t trust the typical fake porn). It’s really not that complicated and you should have a pretty good idea how to start after doing some reading. Then you just need to pay attention to your partner’s reactions as you go. The way she moves, breathes, moans, touches you. If she likes what you’re doing it shouldn’t be that hard to notice.

glhf 😉