I don’t think they mean “stop surviving”. They mean, if something extra would normally be extra stressful, like going to a friend’s wedding or hosting in laws for a week, tell them no. Or even just tell your boss “no” now and then. Say you can’t get that done in a week, refuse an unreasonable request here and there.

If you already are doing the bare minimum and still suffering stress… Wtf? Most people doing the bare minimum aren’t that stressed.