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ReptilianCleric@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

Umm, I do, in fact, decide what I like or don’t like. That’s true for everybody. But I don’t decide what you like, and vice versa. So the issue is still that you can’t decide for other people what they’re into.

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Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
How does that work? Especially given the context. As I’ve understood attraction and what one likes about the other person aren’t really changeable? I’m genuinely curious how can that be changed or decided?

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- ReptilianCleric@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
  I don’t know - maybe just owning your choices?
  
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  - Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago
    And still, hows that supposed to change what one likes?
    Of course i can consciously decide to override likes and preferences, but that still doesn’t change those. It will still be conscious decision every time.
    
    And giving the current context of sex. As I’ve understood, we aren’t supposed to force that?
    
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