Comment on he might be using me to fulfill his younger woman fantasy, but I’m also using him to fulfill my daddy fantasy, so we’re even

• 6_Electrons@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  wasn’t that his exact point lol

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  • arrow74@lemmy.zip ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Even if it’s strictly sex, sex with a real human being is leagues different than sex with 40 lbs of heated silicone

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  • thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    why are u assuming gender

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    • 6_Electrons@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

      You do know in a significant number of languages in this world when gender is unknown the masculine form is used… Some languages, for example Spanish, would even use a masculine form for when the gender is know and a group includes both boys and girls. For example Tengo tres ninos… That sentence could mean I have three boys but it also could mean I have three kids of which some might be female.

      So stop trying to be proactive… You’re bad at it

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      • thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

        im not trying to be provocative im trying to be progressive

        this is english: we have gender neutral terms, which should for many reasons be used

        many people (including myself) find misgendering to be offensive, and many people (including myself) find complicity in the patriarchy offensive

        and also in those other languages people and organizations still often favour gender neutral language; in spanish the forms -e or -i or -x or -@ are somewhat common, i see signage using -x or -e, and spam texts sometimes use -@

        and also, why would you not adjust? saying “they” won’t hurt you

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    • wieson@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      This comment sounds monolingual anglophone

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