Comment on mindset

• wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  This entire chain is you saying:

  Can you show me an example of this happening?

  At this point it’s getting suspiciously close to sealioning, I’m just not entirely convinced that you’re doing it in bad faith. You seem like you genuinely believe what you’re saying

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  • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I’m honestly asking for examples and you keep conjuring strawmen to fight instead of actually engaging with me.

    You made the claim that the reverse happens all the time and I was simply asking for examples.

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    • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I never limited my statement to this community specifically. But the fact is that it does happen all the time and I’m not going to go hunting for examples for you because they happen often enough as it is.

      And you’re still doing the thing that a man would get trashed for doing to women. “I haven’t noticed that, so it doesn’t happen.”

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      • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        “I haven’t noticed that, so it doesn’t happen.”

        Where have I claimed that it doesn’t happen?

        Sure, make a post about guys and see how long it takes these same users to comment saying “why is this unnecessarily gendered?!? Women experience this too!” Or even “That’s not an issue men face! It’s clearly a women’s issue.”

        Why would you specify that the same users will comment if you weren’t limiting your statement to this community specifically? Can you share examples from the wider Lemmy community that shows what you’re talking about?

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