To be fair and to not look absolutely deranged: I do understand that it’s not a competition.

If you like vanilla or popular stuff — good for you, no kink shaming. It’s just that I’m a perverted male and I’m not scared by hypothetical “perverted woman”, cause I yet to see one that outkink me (albeit, in answers to my initial comment there some potential one, I’ll admit).

So meme kinda doesn’t make sense and doesn’t work for me. That the whole point.