Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days agoI am a guy who is a genuine switch.
I’ve only ever met a single female switch, and she was literally a diagnosed nymphomaniac.
I’ve met other guy switches, uncommon but not too uncommon… never ever met another female switch.
ContactClosure@lemmus.org 3 days ago
Thank you for posting this. I am 99.9% sure I am a switch (M) but I’ve been dominated for exactly 5 minutes of my life bc every other partner I’ve had (F so far) was 99% sub.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Yeah, by far most women I’ve met are some flavor of sub. Sometimes they’re confused and say they’re something else, spend at least a few weeks to months with them… nope, they’re subs.
Then, a fair number of woman are genuine doms of some kind, and know it.
But a woman switch? Who not only can, but has to switch the power dynamics, who can’t help themselves from doing that?
Yeah, at least in my experience, about as common as a shiny pokemon.