And the corrollary to that, that even less people want to talk about, is that straight, traditional cis men and women will then mock and shame men who actually do try think outside the box.
So, many men are victims of patriarchy, and many women are perpetrators of patriarchy.
Then you get to the incredibly confusing ‘now’, where many women will claim to be a feminist, yet will also mock and shame men who do not conform to stereotypical male lifestyle/relationship norms.
Actual feminism vs Pop feminism.
Actual feminism seeks to identify and challenge and critique societal gender roles and norms. All societal gender roles and norms.
Pop feminism is basically psuedo (meaning ‘impostor’ or ‘fake’) feminism, that pretty much just boils down to misandry, using a set of buzzwords and terms basically bastardized from actual feminism.
CyberTheProtogen@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Yep. I find the major thing holding me back from most kinks is exactly that; insecurity.
daggermoon@piefed.world 2 months ago
For what it’s worth, you’re not alone.
CyberTheProtogen@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Wow, this community is a whole lot more supportive than I expected
Captain_Buddha@lemmy.world 2 months ago
The posts are shit… The advice is lit…
daggermoon@piefed.world 2 months ago
I’m glad to hear you say that. I hope you enjoy Lemmy. Welcome!