We had a few slightly older Thai and Korean girls at our shop for a bit, who were like that when it came to subtlety. They were fantastic negotiators though and regularly seemed to make bank upselling random bullshit to guys.
I had a double booking with one of them once and spent much of it trying to keep my mouth busy so I wouldn’t be keeled over laughing while she was basically rincing this guys wallet of cash selling him her kegal exercises (and he fucking paid her too. The massive Samoan guy standing outside the door was probably good insentive tho).
Some of the fetish jobs were a lot of fun, one lovely older dude I saw a few times had a whole bunch of very expensive sex toys and ‘apparatus’ and was super into using them on others. Always a fun night.
I also really enjoyed the handful of nights I did at this club that involved basically just edging tied up guys in front of people. The guy running that event was super creepy towards me though, like I’d start feeling unsafe the moment he even entered the room type of creepy. I blocked the club from messaging me again after he escalated things.
The rest of the fet stuff I did wasn’t anywhere near as fun tbh. I stopped avertising for it on my profiles after one guy got violent, luckily he still paid me but the bruising it left me with was bad.
Also waaay too many guys want to be pissed on.
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 days ago
Wow, I wish I could have learned the ropes from women like that, they sound fantastic!
I only ever did lightweight s/m stuff - I have a posh accent that lends itself to telling people off very well, plus I’m naturally bossy, so I’d do school mistress sessions and the like, but only up to using a crop. I always fancied having a go at the heavier side (especially bondage), but wimped out … if I could find a compatible fem sub now, though, that would be so nice. Edging guys to an audience sounds like shooting fish in a barrel TBH, pity someone spoiled it for you :-/
I only ever did watersports proper a couple of times - the smell and texture just turns my stomach, so refusing that was one of my early hard lines.
Talking to you makes me feel like I was a rank amateur, lol