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idiomaddict@lemmy.world 11 hours agoI’m not gonna say I enjoy my own cum but i’ve certainly enjoyed scenes involving me swallowing my own cum.
That’s about where most people I know who aren’t especially into semen are, myself included. Maybe I made it sound like a more negative opinion than it is. It’s just one of those things where the reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy for me, so I’ve got opposing desires for the semen deposit location (I’m sorry, this is a horrible way to describe it) based on arousal and pragmatism.
For what it’s worth, the ranking for me for most to least pragmatic goes: condom, mouth, body, vagina, hair. For arousal, it depends on the situation, but hair is also always last, lol.
Finally, I’m autistic and I don’t think this is the exact same metric allistic people would use (and they might be less bothered by the feeling of semen leaking out of them), so take this with a grain of salt.
Gonzako@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
Oh, you don’t like the feeling of cum in you? Yeah, that ones been outside the norm at least for me.
On my relationships we basically had the same kind of scale, we’d try it all but once we found what we liked we’d stick with it most of the time. Tho, I do have a clear oral fixation either in giving or enjoying, so mouth is pretty high up that list for me.
All in all, I personally appreciated this discussion, as it’s fairly rare to discuss these things with someone other than your current partner.
idiomaddict@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
I like it inside me, unfortunately it always stays there until the worst possible moment and then comes out all at once. If I’m at home and not doing anything, that’s fine, but it’s pretty unpleasant for a morning quickie before work.
But yeah, thank you as well! It’s good to talk about stuff like this with people who aren’t partners.