Who is better suited to know how someone can better present themselves than those having the experience of being presented to?

If one should not do the better thing, then I don’t know what “better” means.

Maybe it’s clearer if I use the same vocabulary as you:

So as a Star Trek fan, I should it’s better if I dress up as a Star Wars fan to please the Star Wars fans looking for Star Trek fans posting as Star Wars fans?

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If you care about that, then go do so. If not, then don’t.

That’s the entire point. I know what I want. You don’t know that about me. All you can know is what you want.