Security cameras and an alarm systems methinks, that’s terrifying! Nightmare fuel shit.

You know your husband better than us (obviously), but from my experience with my feminist partner, these types of serious conversations with men, even they need to be told how serious this is. Like, emphasise the concern, how important it is, how deeply afraid/concerned/upset you are. And lay out what you would like him to do. Sometimes they need to be told what the solution is, so they can physically act. And make it a Thing. Sit him down, tell him you “need to talk about something extremely important to me”, that you require his full, undivided attention in this matter.

It may help to write down how you’re feeling. I know it’s a lot of mental workload to take on, when you’re already under so much stress right now. And I’m definitely not saying this is going to fix anything, as I said I don’t know your husband from a bar of soap.

I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this, sending you all my love