Comment on Do people really "need" friends?
applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 hours ago
yes people need friends. i need friends. ive tried the whole “get all your needs met by my romantic partner” thing. it works fine when times are good, but as soon as theres serious conflict or stress you need other people for support. your partner isnt perfect and neither are you, so in those bad times you share together you will see the worst of each other, and your needs wont be met. in time this breeds resentment and will lead to the end of the relationship. its a sad, lonely, empty existence going through life without friends you trust. you might not feel like it right now but eventually you will learn.
kbobabob@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 hours ago
I talk to my partner when there’s a problem. I don’t need to share that with someone else, it’s none of their business.
Vader@sopuli.xyz 13 hours ago
If someone doesn’t have a romantic partner, they shouldn’t explain their problems or tell anyone about their problems.
kbobabob@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 hours ago
You said that, not me
TachyonTele@piefed.social 13 hours ago
They shouldn’t even speak to other people, right