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Apytele@sh.itjust.works āØ10ā© āØhoursā© agoLess ācompetitiveā mindset I think. I feel like homophobia has resulted in a lot of men taking their pent up sexual aggression out on women when they might otherwise be able to identify themselves as bi and just work out those feelings with another dude. Instead we have all these men spiraling into emotional black holes because women donāt want them right this second. Iāve heard anecdotally that if everyone felt 100% comfortable being honest bi people would probably be the true majority. So itās not like it would fix the incel problem but there might be few enough that they couldnāt concentrate into inescapable singularities.
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone āØ5ā© āØhoursā© ago
Yup, once got to see a man specifically want to receive a bj from another guy, and when it actually started he freaked out and left.
Toxic masculinity really hurts everyone