Can you explain again, that part in more detail, its a little confusing to me. You did what exactly like more specifically maybe an outline of the events and then perhaps someone can explain which one is Jill
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SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠agoIt depends. Itâs not usually like in porn (which usually looks like work because it is)
If itâs with people who want to have mutual enjoyment in a caring way it can be amazing, but even one selfish person can bring the whole thing down and make it feel like a chore.
Men are more likely to be selfish.
I got paid a lot of money once to go dogging, and it was very unpleasant and not worth it. Meanwhile, a weekend-long foursome with 3 other women is one of my most cherished memories and a go-to to think about if I feel the need to Jill off.
Now Iâm older I donât think Iâd want to do more than a threesome with two women, though. It takes a certain amount of fitness that I just canât maintain any more.
KeenFlame@feddit.nu â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
fenrasulfr@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
So it is a matter of having partners you trust and enjoy being around. Still canât see myself ever doing it but thanks for explaining why it works for some people.
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Just like any sexual act, yes
And thank you for not being judgemental :-) This isnât something I get to talk about a lot IRL, and itâs actually nice to be able to be open and honest about it
fenrasulfr@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Yeah I can imagine most people would look at you as a degenerate (which you arenât) if you were to talk about it in person.