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SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

It depends. It’s not usually like in porn (which usually looks like work because it is)

If it’s with people who want to have mutual enjoyment in a caring way it can be amazing, but even one selfish person can bring the whole thing down and make it feel like a chore.

Men are more likely to be selfish.

I got paid a lot of money once to go dogging, and it was very unpleasant and not worth it. Meanwhile, a weekend-long foursome with 3 other women is one of my most cherished memories and a go-to to think about if I feel the need to Jill off.

Now I’m older I don’t think I’d want to do more than a threesome with two women, though. It takes a certain amount of fitness that I just can’t maintain any more.

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fenrasulfr@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
So it is a matter of having partners you trust and enjoy being around. Still can’t see myself ever doing it but thanks for explaining why it works for some people.

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- SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
  Just like any sexual act, yes
  
  And thank you for not being judgemental :-) This isn’t something I get to talk about a lot IRL, and it’s actually nice to be able to be open and honest about it
  
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  - fenrasulfr@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
    Yeah I can imagine most people would look at you as a degenerate (which you aren’t) if you were to talk about it in person.
    
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KeenFlame@feddit.nu ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
Can you explain again, that part in more detail, its a little confusing to me. You did what exactly like more specifically maybe an outline of the events and then perhaps someone can explain which one is Jill

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