Comment on Anon needs a good response
Anivia@feddit.org 3 weeks agoI mean, thank you for your advice, but I’ve been dating for quite a while now so I already learned I have to tone it down. It just feels frustrating having to pretend I’m less interested than I actually am, when I’m usually a person that hates being disingenuous
glimse@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
But the reasons to be put off by lovebombing are justified. You’re a stranger juggling knives and frustrated that they’re backing away lol
Anivia@feddit.org 3 weeks ago
Yes, I am well aware. I just know that lovebombing can also seen as a deliberate manipulation tactic (and often probably is), and my original comment was just meant to show the other side, that it isn’t always a manipulation attempt.
Soulg@ani.social 3 weeks ago
I mean they keep acknowledging that it kinda just seems you’re telling them that they have no choice but to pretend they’re someone different than who they are