Comment on can i still consider myself to be a valid asexual?
Smoogs@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Try explaining how this works to a full sexual on a dating app. You’d think you had shot their animl companion with the given reaction.
Comment on can i still consider myself to be a valid asexual?
Smoogs@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Try explaining how this works to a full sexual on a dating app. You’d think you had shot their animl companion with the given reaction.
reptar@lemmy.world 1 week ago
The mindset that I struggle to understand/relate to is that of those who seem to be unable or unwilling to accept how different another mind might be.
Seems kinda funny to say that, akin to the tolerance “paradox” I suppose.
Smoogs@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Not getting a mind that doesnt get minds hah yea I understand… however we Demi’s have spent our lives making room for those sitting at full speed at the one side of the spectrum. We understand their urges because we’ve had it rudely shoved in our faces. We’ve had to sit in the background while someone makes up bullshit like ‘men are like this women are like that’ and talk like sex is the one and only goal all people have even if it’s your best friend.
It’s the rudeness I don’t get. Theyve taken all the air in the room for themselves. So no, I don’t get that asshole mind set. Never will. I don’t think it’s our task to either.