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mholiv@lemmy.world 4 weeks agoI’m sorry. I’m not on blahaj.
Bigotry towards bi men and non-binary folk seems very much not like them.
Are you a big man or non-binary person? If so I would be interested hearing what sort of discrimination you faced at blahaj. I recommend them quite a bit but would rather not if they are hateful in that way.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
First, do I have to be a bi man or nonbinary to care about bigotry toward them?
mholiv@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
No, but I’ve seen my fair share of concern trolling.
I am neither a bi man nor nonbinary and care, but I value my time.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Okay, so a fair amount of what I’ve seen is bi erasure, and as far as nonbinary bigotry, it’s pretty similar. Nonbinary folk don’t truly exist, whatever that means, and are either male or female kind of how bisexual folk are whatever their current relationship is. The women’s stuff community on blahaj professes to be Trans and nonbinary inclusive but if you are not explicitly female they will harass you with a candy coated “fuck off, you are not female enough”. Not really seen much on else blahaj but have from blahaj users.
Complete AOL blast bullshit, but I figured it wouldn’t take Nazis long to take over blahaj. It’s the sort of thing they’d find funny.
mholiv@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
That sounds not so nice. Is there an example out there or the like?
Jayjader@jlai.lu 4 weeks ago
Counterexample of one, but I’ve commented in womensstuff before as a genderfluid person and have not been asked to leave the space.