Comment on But I'm a Nice Guy(TM)!
MintyFresh@lemmy.world 1 month agoThis! I tell young men I come across having trouble the ladies department. Work on the friend part of girlfriend before all else.
Comment on But I'm a Nice Guy(TM)!
MintyFresh@lemmy.world 1 month agoThis! I tell young men I come across having trouble the ladies department. Work on the friend part of girlfriend before all else.
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Grew up in Europe, live in the US right now. even though it’s the same problem, it’s so much worse here. The fuck is wrong with parents? they socialize girls to be social, but men to be a cavemen stereotype?
Met so many men here that date to get a mother they can fuck. for them dating is just a farce to trick women for sex/caring role. Some consider washing their ass a gay thing. Jules Verne’s Journey to the centre of the earth to find the bar???
And you know what? imma pull a misogyny and blame mothers as well, because men here barely rise their children, it isn’t a 50/50, many fathers are just another older child for the mother to take care of. Even if she works as well. Because yhea, the dad should have been an adult too, but the mothers did raise the girls and boys differently. Do they project the spite for the husband into the boys???
yhea, there are many male adults here who are great people, but part of them being mature is that they also acknowledge that they were brought up to be assholes and they did a lot of internal work to grow. And them existing does not disprove that there is a systemic generational problem.