Super weird response imo. Thereâs nothing wrong with prefering more people to check in, you donât need a specific number
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HikingVet@lemmy.ca â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠agoI donât have one. I find questions like this to be inflammatory
kajib@lemmy.dbzer0.com â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
HikingVet@lemmy.ca â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
And thatâs what Iâm trying to get across.
Leg@sh.itjust.works â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I used to have no one in my life whoâd initiate, and was quite happy with that. So from my perspective, 3 does sound like a good number of friends willing to keep you in their circle, but of course we donât know the first thing about you or your circumstances. What is it about those 3 people that makes it feel like their effort isnât enough to stop your feelings of isolation? I assume if itâs not about quantity, itâs about quality. Am I on the mark, or is it something else you find unsatisfactory?
big_slap@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
im not sure why you found it inflammatory as it was a genuine question. regardless, apologies
HikingVet@lemmy.ca â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Take a moment to think about that.
big_slap@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
thought about it. Iâm still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further
HikingVet@lemmy.ca â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Comparison of the amount of friends one has is not good. It does not speak to quality of the friendships and can cause further issues for people if they donât âmeasure upâ. Genuine curiosity can be inflammatory.