Super weird response imo. Thereās nothing wrong with prefering more people to check in, you donāt need a specific number
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HikingVet@lemmy.ca āØ11ā© āØhoursā© agoI donāt have one. I find questions like this to be inflammatory
kajib@lemmy.dbzer0.com āØ8ā© āØhoursā© ago
HikingVet@lemmy.ca āØ8ā© āØhoursā© ago
And thatās what Iām trying to get across.
Leg@sh.itjust.works āØ5ā© āØhoursā© ago
I used to have no one in my life whoād initiate, and was quite happy with that. So from my perspective, 3 does sound like a good number of friends willing to keep you in their circle, but of course we donāt know the first thing about you or your circumstances. What is it about those 3 people that makes it feel like their effort isnāt enough to stop your feelings of isolation? I assume if itās not about quantity, itās about quality. Am I on the mark, or is it something else you find unsatisfactory?
big_slap@lemmy.world āØ11ā© āØhoursā© ago
im not sure why you found it inflammatory as it was a genuine question. regardless, apologies
HikingVet@lemmy.ca āØ11ā© āØhoursā© ago
Take a moment to think about that.
big_slap@lemmy.world āØ9ā© āØhoursā© ago
thought about it. Iām still unsure because I was trying to have a conversation and compare numbers, but no need to elaborate I dont want to offend you further
HikingVet@lemmy.ca āØ9ā© āØhoursā© ago
Comparison of the amount of friends one has is not good. It does not speak to quality of the friendships and can cause further issues for people if they donāt āmeasure upā. Genuine curiosity can be inflammatory.